How FFL Works

Real connections don’t happen by accident.
They happen in the right environment, with the right people, at the right moment.

Become a Member

  1. Create Your Member Profile

Your profile is the foundation of the process.

You share details about your personality, lifestyle, and relationship goals. This helps us understand compatibility and place you within our matching system.

You can choose to allow your profile and photo to be shared discreetly with selected matches.

Members benefit from this system fully, including compatibility based invitations and curated introductions. Guests are welcome at events, but do not receive these personalized matching advantages.

We strongly suggest to become a member to unlock the full potential of our ressources to find your person.

2.We Curate the Room

Events are not random.

Guest lists are thoughtfully built, considering compatibility, group dynamics, and balance. Dinner seating and flow are designed based on your profile and will encourage natural interaction and comfort.

You’re never left alone to “figure it out.” We are present at each event to welcome you.

3.The Structured Dinner Experience

The evening feels relaxed but it’s structured.

The format allows conversations to evolve naturally, people to interact with more than one guest, and connections to develop without pressure. There’s five structured moments to interact with different people.

It’s not speed dating.
It’s not awkward mingling.
It’s guided social flow.

4.Matches

Once the evening is over, you’ll be invited to select the people you’d like to connect with through our FFL system, where you can view the names and photos of fellow participants.

When there’s mutual interest, we help make the next step easy.

Our system helps identify promising matches and supports introductions in a respectful, discreet way.

No guessing. No chasing. No ghosting games.

Why This Works ?

Connection happens when people feel relaxed, present, and seen.

Sharing over dinner removes the pressure of “performing” and allows personality, humour, and chemistry to show naturally, the way attraction is meant to form.

Dinner settings are also less demanding socially. You’re part of a shared conversation, not in the spotlight. If you need a moment to pause, you can simply listen while others speak, then rejoin when you feel ready.

Connection doesn’t require constant effort, just presence.

Ready to experience it for yourself?

  • Because real matchmaking requires structure.

    If anyone could join an event without a profile or system access, we’d lose the most important ingredient that makes FFL work:

    Intentional attendees
    More accurate matches
    Balanced groups
    Better seating
    Higher quality community

    Activation profile allows us to protect the vibe and build a pool of people who are actually serious about meeting someone.

  • Yes, you can, you just won’t have the same perks as our members.

  • You can cancel anytime before your next annual renewal.
    Profile activation fees are non-refundable once activated.

  • After each event, you’ll submit your matches via our FFL system.
    If two people select each other, both will receive contact information within 24 hours.

    We only share mutual matches

  • Each event is designed for a specific age range ( 27-35, 30-45, 40-55), which is always clearly indicated on the event page.

  • Our members-only content includes:

    • Dating and relationship insights

    • Tips to feel more confident at events

    • How to read signals and build real connections

    • Post-event advice and reflections

  • We aim for an 40% men / 60% women ratio at our events.

    This balance helps create a comfortable, dynamic atmosphere where conversations flow naturally and everyone feels at ease.

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